This is regarding my father so its quite awkward and delicate
But certain things he says and has does are really odd. I just need to know if I was right in thinking this. Sorry if this sounds like a no brainer! but its not always easy to see a situation when you are involved in it.
I recall when I was approx 13 he and I were talking about something and then he proceeded to show me the contents of his underwear and his underwear!?
Then over the years just little comments, like when I was expecting my baby I said I was going to breast feed and he said ''well you have 2 breasts''
Over the years he makes sexual remarks regarding women which would be ok to his friends but not in front of me or my mother.
Once my son was born, I went to visit and we were sitting at the dinner table (me and mum) and he had had some wine and was being wierd, we were talking about plastic surgery and then he mentioned (off the cuff) about how he would get a penis extension.
I felt really awkward and mum (for the first time ever) actually told him to stop talking and said its not appropriate in front of (me) his daughter!
It has all come to a head and to be honest, I had enough of him and said to my mum that its not the first time he hasnt been right around me.
Well it all caused a massive argument and none of them will speak to me now.
Do you think hes inappropriate??
thank you
biological father
i dont want my child around it
biological father
i dont want my child around it
This is regarding my father so its quite awkward and delicate
But certain things he says and has does are really odd. I just need to know if I was right in thinking this. Sorry if this sounds like a no brainer! but its not always easy to see a situation when you are involved in it.
I recall when I was approx 13 he and I were talking about something and then he proceeded to show me the contents of his underwear and his underwear!?
Then over the years just little comments, like when I was expecting my baby I said I was going to breast feed and he said ''well you have 2 breasts''
Over the years he makes sexual remarks regarding women which would be ok to his friends but not in front of me or my mother.
Once my son was born, I went to visit and we were sitting at the dinner table (me and mum) and he had had some wine and was being wierd, we were talking about plastic surgery and then he mentioned (off the cuff) about how he would get a penis extension.
I felt really awkward and mum (for the first time ever) actually told him to stop talking and said its not appropriate in front of (me) his daughter!
It has all come to a head and to be honest, I had enough of him and said to my mum that its not the first time he hasnt been right around me.
Well it all caused a massive argument and none of them will speak to me now.
Do you think hes inappropriate??
thank you
forgot to say - i wont let my son be around it
I didnt cause it....his behaviour did!! he is well aware it makes me uncomfortable.....!
this is going to take a while to explain
Im 17 and pregnant and going to be starting college in sept 2011 when baby is 7 months old.
So i may have to switch our child from breast to formula if i cant catch up with the demand.. but is this safe to do and how do you recommend i do it? will my baby get too sick or will he/she have a stronger digestive system after being weaned??
also can i bottle feed if i use "Tommee tippee" bottles and breast feed so my boyfriend can feel more involved? as the bottle tip is shaped as a nipple?
Thankyou in advance.. no harsh comments please, i am young but i want to do this properly x
My daughter will be two months on 9/9/10. She is overall a wonderful baby. She doesn't cry much at all, & she is always happy/content. She loves to talk & smile. & I'm always holding her and talking to her and singing to her and trying to get her to do things (stick out her or click her tongue) I love teaching her. I love giving her attention. I breast feed & we often co-sleep.
My question is; do you think that she needs "alone" time?
I do set her down, when I have to get things done, or when she falls asleep, & sometimes just to set her down. She doesn't get mad when I do this. She just looks around & coos and stuff. She seems content, but I feel bad for not holding her and teaching her and talking to her. I was wondering do any other mothers feel this way?
I don't wanna "spoil" her (I don't think I am, cause she doesn't want to constantly be held.)
Is it good for her to get her alone time?
I know all breasts arent equal and one breast will always be bigger than the other, but it's making me VERY self conscious... why could this be that now its extremely noticable?
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